Why do people some people always need to have opinions about others. I hear so many judgements and criticisms about people every single day.

People seem to think they know what’s best for other people. They have a better way of doing things, a better way people should run their own lives. I hear people saying “why would you do that” and “you should do it this way”. They don’t understand why people do certain things certain ways.

I don’t know why anyone else would think they know what is best for other people. You see them for a fraction of the day a few days a week. The other 23 hours a day you have no idea what goes on in someones life and as my 7 year old would say “you don’t live in their body”.

You don’t need to understand why people do things. The only life you’re living is your own. 

Stop wasting energy judging and criticizing other. You only have to live your life. The only person looking back at you in the mirror is yourself. No one else deals with your choices, your feelings, or anything you encounter in a day. It’s all you, so no one should make any decisions for you except for YOU! Why even care what others think when they are only aware of such a small fraction of what is going on in your life. It’s so easy to make quick judgements without knowing the full story. Worry about your own actions and your own life choices.

Let go of 2 things :

  1. Worrying about what others do
  2. Worrying about what others THINK of you

People aren’t robots and they are not going to make all the right choices and do all the right things all the time. Life is never black and white stop judging people like it is.

-Coach Kalie